Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Can you recommend

... a good pediatrician?
... a good specialist?
... a good restaurant?

... you get the drift. As if, in the first place, I would otherwise recommend someone/something/someplace bad.

Sigh. So I have to ask for basic information before I could even begin somewhere.

- the pediatrician: how old is the patient, what is the medical condition to be looked at.
- the specialist: a specialist in what?
- the restaurant: the list of pertinent information is so long. Occasion, budget, type etc.

I don't bother with the ones looking to me to recommend a good boyfriend/husband.

14 comments:

Johnny Malkavian said...

Recommend girlfriend can or not ah? Hahhaa

LuLu said...

Asking only for good recommendation mah, not BEST. HaHa

sinlady said...

jm - minimum requirement must be girl, no need good? maybe can! heheh

lulu - bleah and bah

eatdrinkplayjunkie said...

haha, what loaded requests!

imp said...

i AGREE! i hate to recommend ANYTHING to anyone unless i know them well. even so, must have disclaimers. UGH. there're so many pre-requisite information before i'm able to even give a coherent, logical recommendation for anything!

sinlady said...

edpj - ya lor, like i take responsibility for outcome once i recommend.

imp - so important to ask the right and relevant questions, or else recommendation is totally off track. aargh...the pressure!

dsowerg said...

I'm wary of asking for recommendations because of the concerns you raised. I find it very difficult to put the other party on the spot, so I will state all the disclaimers up front so that he/she will not feel undue pressure.

It is incumbent on us asking for recommendations to take responsibility for accepting them.

That being said, I need recommendations for... :D

sinlady said...

eveline - it's a big help already if the person asking for recommendation even knows what she's talking about. so how might i help? haha

Anonymous said...

hello kawan, bolih recommend satu boyfriend untuk anak perempaun gua, mesti baik punya orang, hehehe
NM

sinlady said...

NM - kawan! saya mencari manusia sempurna untuk ibu dan anak perempuan hehehe

Anonymous said...

wah i am impressed with your bahasa, so superb, but you ada anak perempuan, kus semangat mesti dia cantek?

NM

sinlady said...

NM - saya bahasa kechil lah. jika anak perempuan itu suka dia adalah mencukup. what more to say?

Anonymous said...

SL, terima kasih, nanti kita bertemu lagi. Hati-hati ya, (Take care, NM

sinlady said...

NM - kembali, kawan. we meet soon.