Friday, August 10, 2007

I don't believe

anyone who tells me he/she remains best of friends with his/her ex.

I categorically, irrevocably, unambiguously stand by my conviction that this is an impossibility.

So if you want to keep my respect for you as a person, NEVER tell me you and your ex are now best, good, or just friends.

Grieve for the loss and then get on with your life already.


11 comments:

Suzie Wong said...

Are you serious? I'm still working for one of mine? So does it mean u gonna kick me out of your 'respectable' list.

Anyway, seems like i might be working for him for a long long time more. The previous option (remember i called you for advice?) seems to be closed, as in...they are closing soon!

sinlady said...

How many ex-es you got har? haha

Yours a work relationship. I talking best friends after break up. I just don't accept it.

oh no, so sad to see them close shop!

wildgoose said...

Who's closing shop? I want to kaypoh.

Frens maybe; best friends? I agree it's not possible.

Jodie said...
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Jodie said...

All the Ex stay on the other side of the bridge ... Though I dont mind talking to my ex but there's only ONE person that I NEVER want to hear his name EVER again .. but check this out .. it's disgusting .. after all he did to me he said "Jodie you will always be my best friend and you will never lose me"

I'm sorry but that's the most retarded thing I've ever heard in my life.

sinlady said...

wg: have to join us for ice cream and coffee to get the answer :)

I don't feel ex-es can even be friends. What can you share with him?

Jodie: Funny how it's always the one who did the leaving who will say let's stay friends? *shudder*

wildgoose said...

I want ice cream and coffee!

Hmm... just be cordial since we still have mutual friends. I always cringe though when my first ex wants to talk to me. I just can't talk to him anymore!

eatdrinkplayjunkie said...

i so agree... if u can be best friends in the first place, why did u break up?!

but then again for some people with lotsa passion, staying friends with their ex-es is a must. cos if not, they dont have any friends left... :P

sinlady said...

wg : get suziewong to fix date for ice cream/coffee/kaypoh.

First ex? How many ex-es we talking here? LOL

edpj: exactly :P

Simone said...

My ex's wife LOATHES the very mention of my name (she does not even know me personally or anything), so that completely rules out even the POSSIBILITY of remaining friends. Not that I'm complaining :))

OK, and what's this about closing shop AGAIN.

sinlady said...

YOU (??gasp??) have someone out there who does not love you? NO!!! LOL

Ask suziewong about the shop ya?