Friday, July 01, 2011


was the month
I celebrated my birthday. I have so many of you to thank for having come into my life and making it that much richer and fuller.

I grappled with my conflicted feelings about my parents knowing that I would have to be around them more often in the months ahead. And having to listen to Mother yammer a lot more in the process.

I made a few important life changing decisions. The one that is pertinent to you, my readers, pertains to my blog. I believe in keeping an open blog. I am happy to have met so many of you here. I hope to continue seeing you here.

I have also reached a point in my journal where I want to confine some of my posts to a more familiar and friendly readership. I will let you know when that blog is up and running. Write me (sinlady at gmail dot com) to get yourself on the invite list, please.

You see, I did a lot of thinking about my life and about living. And, with all due modesty, I look back and can honestly say I live my life the best I know how. I have few regrets. Except now, I need to do it better. And therefore, hopefully, have even fewer regrets.

It starts with keeping certain unwanted prying eyes out of some aspects of my life, even if only as a blogger.


Anonymous said...

i know that feeling too well, dear sinlady. and the circle just gets smaller and smaller. till i wonder if there is something wrong with me.

sinlady said...

tuti - nothing wrong with you, or me. it's them out there *hugs*

wildgoose said...

It is hard to find a community or circle of people who understands or is unquestioningly supportive even without knowing the reasons for your choices.

I totally support u in not subjecting yourself to unwanted critical scrutiny. :)

sinlady said...

wildgoose - thanks for being a friend:)

Anonymous said...

i'm in limbo blogland right now.
it would be an honor to be in your list when it's up. but totally unless you're comfortable.
i do understand these days about comfort level. so no problem. i am still happy to plant my ass here too. *hugs*

sinlady said...

tuti - i was going to be presumptuous and invite you anyway :)
the by-invite blog is not up yet. i am bogged down with so many different tasks these 2 weeks.